The Grief of Expectations
Philosophers have long since argued that the root cause of our suffering is our expectations. And it is simple, after all. We have never grieved our present. We have always grieved the version of the present that we wanted. What do we want, though? Happiness? Money? Peace? Love? The question is quite simple, but it's answers are complicated. No matter how much you achieve, discontent always runs under your skin. Sometimes, life feels right. You fall in love. You run into old friends. You get the job you wanted. But what happens when we don't get the things that we want? What happens when your friends leave? When your relatives die? When you see your savings drain away? You build an entire life- an entire future around a person. Or around a career. Or around a city. And then, there comes a time, where it all falls apart. No one escapes this. Not me, not you. The reason is entropy. Everything in the universe is ultimately destined for chaos. We are all steadi...